No Spring Chicken

At my recent sojourn at the local hospital, I was proverbially thumped in the forehead for forgetting that I am no longer a spring chicken.  As if I needed a sour side dish of that with a serving of lumpectomy....  Anyhoo!

My first medical act upon check-in is to pee into a cup to see if I have a bun in the oven.  When the nurse peruses my negative results, I joke to Mr B, "Well, at least we aren't leaving here with a baby!"  And Crusty Nurse Cruella grimly confirms, "No, of course not dear, that test is really for girls who are still in their 20's and 30's," as she efficiently goes back to her business....  bitch!

Next I am wheeled into radiology when who should appear but Barbie's longtime boyfriend Ken-blond, golden, perfectly proportioned, and eternally youthful.  "Hello! Miz B!  My name is Corey!  I'm gonna be looking after you this morning!  So how are you today?!?"    ....for fuck's sake....  Are you kidding me?  A kid named Corey is now the boss of my BOOB???  ....for fuck's sake...  Anyone with the name of Corey cannot be a day over 15 years old...  for fuck's sake...  So Corey is undressing my left boob and appears to be puzzled and concerned, "Miz B!  What do we have here!?!" So I patiently explain to Corey in my best I am talking to a 15 yr old voice, "Corey honey,  my boob is covered in numbing cream and seran wrap BECAUSE THE DOCTOR TOLD ME TO!"  Despite my piss-n-vinegar tone, Corey breezily proceeds to wipe down my lotioned, numb boob...  ...for fuck's sake...

Corey may have been young and dumb, but I'm gonna give him pretty.

Laws...

Cancer Fashion Flare

Whew!  I survived the lumpectomy and am now at home higher than a cat's ass from all the pain meds Mr B is stuffing down my throat.  Truth be told:  I think he's doing it more for his pain, than mine...  Anyhoo...!  I'm looking a little road hard and put up wet at this point, but watcha gonna do when people have been chasing you through hospital corridors with a chainsaw???  I suspect that's what really happens when the anesthesiologist comes in to "drug" you.  It's all just a big horror story, for sure.

On a more positive note, I had some really cute boys taking care of my boob during my hospital stay.  However, once they start jamming you in the titty with giant needles and such, they're all just a bunch of sons of bitches  Pretty, my ass (spit! over the shoulder).

Now, on to the important stuff:  what does one wear for breast cancer surgery? 

Here's the break down:  a pink-plaid flannel shirt with cuffed sleeves, fitted black yoga socks, and pink and black booties to tie it all together.   Oh!  and pigtails and clear lip gloss just about wraps it up (always moisturize with SPF-even if you're planning to die on the operating table) .  Now that I'm home, I'm wearing the same pink-plaid flannel shirt with grey plaid men's boxers rolled at the waist-and a messy bun on top of my head and light foundation to even out the post-surgery blotches.  I might be inspired to switch it up and wear Mr B's red plaid man robe at some point.  Less is more is my cancer fashion philosophy.

Whew!  I've just about run out of steam...  I'm off now to go pop a few pills and then slobber into my pillow.  What could be more fashionable than that???

Y'all stop by again soon!

Mystery

Big kid is now a high schooler.  Weird, right?!?  So I ask him, "Have you picked out your outfits for the week?"  And he looks at me like I'm a creature from the deep.

People with penises-there ain't no understanding them. 

Laws, y'all...

Little Pitchers Have Big Ears

I remember eavesdropping on my momma when I was young-and foolish.  She would spend hours on the phone trash talking neighbors and husbands and church ladies and school teachers and irritatin' relatives for hours in hushed tones punctuated with bouts of raucous laughter with her best friend Gladys Carrier.  She would talk so long that she would lie on the floor, tangled in the mile long phone cord with her feet propped up on the counter and a watered down TAB drink in her hand.  It would make my father furious that he could never call his own home and talk to a solitary soul.  His only compensation-a chronic busy signal.  The more my mother whispered, the more desperate I became to learn her secrets.  I knew that whatever she was talking 'bout was important... and juicy...  and likely sacrilegious (even though she was a devout Southern Baptist).  To my great dismay, my mother had ears like a cat and could hear the whisper of tippy toes on carpet.  Indeed-she must have been a ninja.  No matter how careful I thought I was, I always got caught and suffered (willingly) a stinging slap to the behind for my poor detective skills and trying to mind my mama's business.  This is the greatest sin a Southern chile can commit.  Lying can be forgiven.  Listening to your mama's inner most secrets-NEVER. 

Which is why I have retired Blither Blather Bitchin' to a more secure location where the young and the restless aren't minding my bid'ness.  Of course, I forgive them for their sordid and perverse curiosity.  I'd probably do the same in their shoes...  Laws, y'all- who wouldda thunk that lady chat could be so dang...interesting???

Anyhoo....  WELCOME TO UNABASHED BLATHER!!!  I hope you will appreciate the face lift and the botox, but just a friendly warning:  just the same ol' drivel posted here.

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Blessings!

Today I saw a little yellow goldfinch dodging pattering raindrops as it flitted through the trees, and it gladdened my soul.

Perks

Cancer is mostly a hassle:  ... the appointments ... the paperwork ...  the pamphlets...  not to mention constant discussions of grody body fluid...  Laws...!  I need an extra Xanax just to forget 'bout all that...

Mr B also pointed out another cancer phenomenon.  Whenever anyone mentions the dreaded word "cancer,"  they instantly lower their voices three octaves and look over their shoulder and take a step backwards.  Indeed-it is a creepy word...  kinda like the word "plague!"

Recently, however, I discovered a cancer perk while talking to an irritatin' sales guy on the phone.  "Excuse me!"  I rudely interrupt his rehearsed pitch.  "I have cancer!"  Y'all, I almost felt sorry for him seeing as how he couldn't apologetically scramble off that phone fast enough.  And that's when it hit me:  I just pulled THE CANCER CARD.  Who knew the power of that one lil phrase???

So here's some other ways I plan to pull THE CANCER CARD in the near future:

Pass the salt??? Excuse me...!  I have cancer!
Me first!!!  Do you have cancer???
I'm not interested in your bullshit...  I have cancer!
You talking to me?!?  I have cancer!

As y'all can see, the potential for abuse of power is pretty darn great here-like 110%.  And what fool what turn away from that??? 

...B'member-  I have cancer!

Update

I guess it's time to return to my day job since the sounds of cartoons are starting to rake across my one frazzled nerve, and lil brother has become even lazier than even I thought possible-which is pretty epic to begin with.  I'm pretty tired of seeing him slumped shirtless on the couch with freaky hair wrapped up in a raggedy blanket, circa 1978.  I feel the same way about Cartoon Network that vampires feel about silver...  Egad!   Make it stoppppppp!!!!

My B was a little shocked recently when he picked up my cancer folder and saw the letters GDMFC! boldly scribbled on the front cover.  "It took like .7 seconds for me to figure that one out.  You're not gonna carry this around are you?" he muses.  And yes, I assure him, I AM.  It's my GD cancer folder, and I can write any GD thing I want to it on it.  I also assure him, that should he ever need a cancer folder, I will decorate his folder with butterflies and rainbows and HELLO KITTY stickers...  Pardon me if  GDMFC! is not very politically correct and makes others uncomfortable. 

My lumpectomy surgery is scheduled for Aug 14th, followed by 3-6 wks of radiation.  And honestly, I am just sitting around tapping my toes ready to get this show on the road.  August is a real sh*t storm for me with my day job slamming around like a raging, drunken tornado sucking up the innocent and evil alike.   Laws...  Where is lil brother's blanket???  Think I'm gonna wrap up in it and watch another Housewives episode....  or two...